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Are designer labels really necessary to boost your self-image - part 3
Wednesday, January 23rd, 2013
(2) You have the financial means to spend on those items, and you do so without reservation
In this category, you could end up being a playboy if you are a male. If you are a female, you may be labeled as a spoilt brat with too much money than sense. Again, both males and females can abuse their position and become too attached to the materialistic aspects of the world. To attract the right kind of partners, one has to be balanced with their spending habits just like in category (1) above. If you are sensible with your money and your desire is for the finer aesthetics in life, then you need not worry about giving off the correct self-image. If your desire is to please others then you may need to look into your yourself and analyze and question where you stand. It is often the qualities that you possess as an individual which have no bearing on what you wear or buy that determines the longevity of a good and healthy relationship.
(3) You have ample money but you don’t show it
You probably know of the story by Charles Dickens called ‘‘Scrooge’ where a rich accountant counts every penny and lives a sorry life until he finally wakes up to his mistakes. Please make sure you don’t fall into this category, since this could be one of the most disliked self-images that anyone can possess. There are so many people who are struggling to make ends meet but here is an individual who has large amounts of money but spends very little on himself or on others. The quality of relationships are based on empathy and one who is balanced with their way of spending is more likely to succeed.
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Top Wines To Drink On Winter Date Nights
Saturday, December 8th, 2012
When the chill in the air rises, wines are the drink of the evening. It is stylish to drink wine and follow the trends that change according to the season. When on a date, it is exciting to spend time with him/her and make it more enjoyable when you both share common interests. Add more body to your dating life with top pick wines to drink on your winter date.
Chardonny- the full bodied and crisp wines from Chablis with characteristics taste of fine grapes. This wine goes well with all white foods such as poultry and vegetables.
Gewurztraminer- is best prepared from grapes from France and Italy. This wine has an aroma of lychee and roses and goes well with spicy Asian food.
Pinot Bianco- is a rich green apple aroma wine from Italy. Goes very well with cheese dishes.
Riesling- is an ideal white grape wine for winters which goes well with roast turkey and ham. It is extremely smooth and leaves you with a glow of happiness.
Sparkling Wines- go well with all foods, be it in pastries or cheese loaded with hors d’oeuvres.
Dessert Wines- are ultra sweet so makes for a wonderful meal-ender in winters. Go extremely well with rich cheese or salty desserts. Austrian dessert wines are the best in the world.
La Cala Vermentino 2007- is beautiful, crisp wine from Italy which makes a great combination with seafood especially oysters.
Zinfandel- is a full bodied Californian wine to be enjoyed on a winter night.
As the nights get lengthy and the days become shorter, enjoy this heart warming liquid with your date on those cold winter nights in front of a fire or a cozy sofa.
Check out few more wines you can enjoy on your winter date night
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How to be a Dating Champion - 100 Dating and Relationship Tips
Tuesday, November 20th, 2012
Title –100 dating and Relationship Tips
Author – Marius Panzarella
Summary
There are plenty of women available if you are man enough to go looking for them. If you don’t approach women then your chances of getting them are nil. Approach women and half the battle is won. Also to women, please don’t make yourself easily available or the guy will lose interest in you very quickly.
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Understand who you are, what you want and focus on the key areas of your life to draw women towards you. Tempt the woman to fall in love with you and don’t convince her to fall in love with you, let your actions do the talking.
Simple and easy tips given here will definitely help you to begin and sustain the relationship for a very long time. A complete and precise handbook with amazing tips is a sure shot winner for you to have a successful relationship when you find the right person to go on a date with.
There are tricks to keep in mind when dealing with a sexually aggressive woman by posing something challenging. This is a sure turn on for her and she will respect you all the more for that understanding.
Tips on good grooming and body language will go a long way in winning her heart. Read in between the lines and know when she is in love with you.
What We Can Learn
Recognize yourself and your needs and also increase your confidence and focus on your skills to be an achiever. This will attract women towards you. Let the woman of your dreams fall in love with you rather than you convince her that you are the right guy for her.
Eye contact is a must when you talk to her so let her move her eyes away before you do and this will give you the confidence to go ahead even if you have goofed up.
Don’t force yourself to be the Mr nice guy who does not offend women. Women hate such guys and get turned off easily. What they are looking out for is some spark in their relationship with a real man who has the ability to say ‘no’ when he wants to.
You can’t be a winner every time, if you are rejected by her take it as a learning lesson. Don’t be upset and lose your confidence, always analyze and you will know what kind of women are not your types rather you are not the types for those kind of women.
Don’t stress yourself out by trying to be perfect, it just doesn’t work in the real world. Learn the skills of communication and be cool to show you are cool. Learn how to handle situations where you are in an awkward position. Make her laugh as much as you can as wit really can be appealing to a woman.
Body language must be positive that conveys a lot to the potential partner. Be well groomed, clean and stylish. Kiss her well and she is yours. Don’t hurry in touching her or you may rub her the wrong way. Read her reaction and you will know whether to go ahead in this relationship or time to look for a different person.
Dr Dato’s Comments
With so many women available, a guy has to just look in the right place. Accept that men and women brains are wired differently. Women are attracted to guys who are achievers and have a body of confidence. Women fall in and out of love first then rationalize their emotions.
Most people build mental blocks where dating is concerned. Get over this mental block and open your mind to be receptive. Remember you cannot go back in time. Learn to avoid the same mistakes when flirting or during courtship. Don’t waste time in regretting but move ahead with renewed energy and a positive attitude and outlook.
Be well groomed, poised, relaxed, smile a lot and keep eye contact. All these work magic on a women’s psyche and compel her to be interested in you. Read books on body language and develop your body language accordingly to convey your sincerity and openness. Women need not be trained to analyze body language as they are simply blessed with this uncanny sense of understanding that is subtly conveyed.
You must understand her body language to rightly gauge if she is interested in you or not. Just her smile and flick of hair is not enough to show her interest in you. This book systematically describes how to recognize her interest in you and go ahead from a casual to a committed relationship.
Women love challenges and the aggressive woman will tease you and approach you. Instead of being uncomfortable simply challenge her and if she succeeds you are onto a winner. Understand the women mind and enjoy her companionship by making your relationship fun and interesting.
Communication skill has to be developed to build a rapport in any relationship. Find topics to keep communicating with the women and score brownie points for you.
Touch her in such a way that she does not feel cheap but beautiful. Step by step go ahead and let the relationship mature and bloom beautifully. Add humor to your conversation and that is the important building block of creating rapport with her.
Make sure you don’t fall in love with your best friend’s girlfriend as loyalty and trust are still important issues in this social world. Tell yourself repeatedly it is absolute no-no as the human mind can be gobbled up by guilt at any stage in life.
Human mind is very complicated and so apply the different techniques as per the situation to turn out a winning situation every time.
Also, keep in mind that not all women are for you, so if you find yourself working too hard with a woman you met, it is possible that she is not right for you.
Rating
4 on 5 for this handbook on dating and relationship tips. This book is excellent reading material for beginners as well as those who are already in a relationship. Follow the steps closely and you will find.
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Mars and Venus on a Date - Dating Do’s and Don’ts for Ladies
Saturday, November 10th, 2012
Title – Mars and Venus on a Date
Author – John Gray, Ph.D
Summary
To find true and lasting love the author has effectively formulated a theme with Mars and Venus on a Date. For single men and women, the five stages of dating are attraction, uncertainty, commitment, intimacy and engagement. With a deeper understanding of each others behavior it is easy to interpret and act accordingly.
Mars and Venus on a Date - Dating Do's and Don'ts for Ladies
When one is not able to identify that the person is not right for them, both partners force themselves to alter situations and try to change the partner or themselves. This leads to frustration and negative feeling as no matter what you do the relationship simply falls apart. It is just not possible to fit a square peg in a round hole. Once you understand this, take the right steps and break the relationship on a note without regrets and resentment so you can look for the right person with an open heart.
When you are with the right person, you just know it. Forcing yourself to change for the sake of the relationship is the biggest mistake one can make. This simply lengthens the pain in a relationship which is ultimately going to end on a bitter note.
It is not at all necessary that you love someone for you to be in a relationship with that person. The more you get to know the person the more you realize that the person is worthy of your love and affection but might still not be the right person to share your life with.
Besides communication, physical, emotional, mental and spiritual chemistry have to match for a successful and fulfilling relationship which is elaborately explained here.
This book greatly assists the readers in identifying the right person who could be the soul mate for you. Going diligently thorough the five stages will help you be prepared and if required to end the relationship on a pleasant note. What We Can Learn, Every man and woman in a relationship wants a loving and fulfilling relationship. Once we understand how each one thinks and analyzes statements and situations, it becomes easy to comprehend and improve the relationship. Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
During the various stages of dating, continue to do the little things to make your partner feel special and experience the best in both. Make your dating experience positive and it becomes easier to find the special one.It is not at all necessary that when you love someone you must share your life with that person. You may love one but that person may still not be the right person for you. Confused people in love do not understand this and may become critical of a relationship.
If you don’t find the person to be right for you, do not end that relationship on a bitter note. Feeling resentful or guilty when you end a relationship makes it much tougher to move forward and find the right person who maybe just around the corner.
Trust your partner. When you try to make your relationship work the first rule to follow is to stop doubting and questioning your partner. This leads to a greater misunderstanding, irritability and sows the seeds of hatred. Communication, physical, emotional, mental and spiritual tuning are a must for a successful relationship. Physical attraction is short lived which can be sustained only when chemistry of the mind, heart and soul match with the partner. Know and understand your partner for a long term, successful and understanding relationship.
Remember loving someone does not mean marrying that person. Have a fulfilling relationship and make life simpler by understanding and identifying the subtle differences to make life happy and complete.
Dr Dato’s Comments
Men and women are a mystery to each other simply because the brains are programmed to think differently. On reading this book and trying to understand your partner, each one can analyze the situation and simplify the response rather than over-reacting and denting the relationship.
Understand the five stages of dating and you are sure to find your soul mate. After reading this book, it is easier for men and women to understand that if the person is not right for them then it is time to move on rather than having regret or to be hurt and upset. A beautiful secret has been revealed in this book that tells the readers: “good endings make good beginnings”. When a relationship ends either partner may have a feeling of regret or being used or feel angry as expectations were not met. The human nature forces us to close the heart and the mind is not ready to think freely due to the fear of being hurt again. End the relationship without resentment and move forward to find your true soul mate.
The techniques described here help the readers to realize and recognize if they are forcing themselves with the wrong person. Both try to change each other or self and end up being frustrated and going nowhere. This gives rise to negative feelings and makes the relationship worst. Following the identification tips can greatly help people who are entering into a relationship or are already in one and can see it go sour have the options of doing something about it.
Learn to identify and find your soul mate that may not be perfect but is perfect to bring out the best out of you. Follow the tips and find that the right person to make life loaded with happiness and worth living. Matching the spiritual, emotional, mental and physical desires leads to a happy and contented relationship. Don’t rush into a relationship no matter what your age. Open your heart, understand and then take the next step rather than a blind plunge.
Rating
3 out of 5 is the rating I give to this book. It generalizes the temperaments of people which really cannot be stereo-typed. Some different cases could have been given as examples with the psychological analysis. Although, what has been written deserves full marks for the majority of the readers to understand and implement into their own lives.
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Dating Tips can open up a world of opportunities for you
Monday, July 18th, 2011
When it comes to dating you need to be fully prepared with the right equipment, and of course, make note of a few dating tips. Your chance at success depends on your online profile and picture. These are your trump cards in the dating game. The key is to present your innermost thoughts and desires in your profile. Much of it could be about what you desire in a partner. And, when it comes to selecting photographs, do take the time to get it right. This is one of the most important dating tips you need to pay close attention too. Make sure the photographs flatter you, but do that without any fabrication or else you would hurt your chances of finding the right partner. Ultimately, you will actually meet in person so there is no point in messing around with your profile and photographs. Be honest, and be yourself.
Spend time on your profile and let prospective dates know what you really enjoy in life. Another among the many online dating tips you need to heed is to be proactive when dating. When someone contacts you, don’t wait endlessly. Make sure to write back within a day no matter what your decision is. If you don’t there are probably dozens behind waiting to make a connection. One of the most important things is to be positive. A positive attitude is what will help you find the right partner. You will be surprised at the world of opportunities that open up when you make a positive approach.
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