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The ‘Happiness Factor’ in Dating
Thursday, April 26th, 2012
Have you ever thought about the frequency of dates you are having with your dating partner? This could have much bearing on your relationship and give you deep insights into your partner’s thoughts and values. Prior to the dates you were most likely a singleton with tons of time in your hands and now all of a sudden you are pulled into a whirlwind of romantic dates.
The ‘Happiness Factor’ in Dating
Most of us will not consider the sudden transition that often takes place especially if the partner you are dating is to your liking and looks like long-term potential. You may argue that this could be in some ways good or bad but the fact is that we have a strict ‘happiness factor’ in our lives that moves us in certain directions. The problem is that along with the high ‘happiness factor’ we could also land with a thud when something in the future goes out of tune or whack and when we are least prepared.
Again, the question is can we always rely on our basic instincts and judgements to carry us forwards or should we be aware of the rapid changes that is happening all around us. It is a good question and one that needs careful thought since the ‘happiness factor’ is at play here. The irony of this issue is that the ‘happiness factor’ can often be in conflict with your sensory perceptions of instinct that is used for survival factors. It is probably the main culprit in our conflicting opinions and views when it comes to gender differences (please read our previous post on this hot topic).
Without being too serious and making your day a dull one, lets end the post on a happy note. The ‘happiness factor’ is a prime driving force in all of us, but just remember that in the same way when you step onto the road and suddenly a car blasts past you, your instinct takes over and saves your life. Your instincts will be a better judge of steering you through the maze of dangers and pitfalls and to keep and maintain your ‘happiness factor’ at an elevated high.
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The burning factions of love
Wednesday, April 25th, 2012
It is without doubt that love is a great force that moves us to do greater things but we also know that it can consume the very heart and soul and leave us wandering aimlessly through the plains of the earth. Could there be just the right balance that keeps us engaged with excitement and passion but not lean sufficiently towards the tipping point. What are the burning factions of love?
The burning factions of love
It would appear that a majority of us would like to have some control of our own feelings and thoughts and why shouldn’t we be? After all, by exercising such control we are able to do many things diligently without offending others and still manage to get on in life. By selecting a dating partner there are many who diffuse or channel what would be considered as ‘inappropriate’ energy towards them and find some solace and comfort within. However, is that also fair to yourself and your partner?
Perhaps we are all wired in the same way and the test of our success and failure on earth is directly proportional to the control and restraint we have over ourselves. Then again, why do we need to do this, since many have followed their deep seated desires to achieve greatness in this society, or have they? Here lies the difference. Our own mental conjugation of love determines who we truly are and how we perceive the outside world to be. Never forget that.
Although all humans have a great capacity for love, we still find ourselves in the shifting sands of time aimlessly and hopelessly peering into life without a clue. We rely on our instincts, judgements and advice to give more meaning to our lives but yet we find ourselves how empty all this can be. The torrential love affair that one has with oneself needs dissipating and the burning factions of love can be no more.
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What to Wear on Your Date Night - It’s Your Confidence
Tuesday, April 24th, 2012
Online single are always puzzled on what to wear on their date night. What make them attractive? What outfit will give their personality a different and unique look from others? One thing is very much true is that there are possibilities that what singles wear on their dating night can enhance their personality but it is also true that it cannot change them from their true personality.
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Getting well dressed up is certainly an important part of dating preparations but, the most important part is to have the confidence in your own self which many singles forget to carry on their dating night. If you are not confident, you tend to make a whole lot of mistakes like avoiding healthy discussions about who you are, what you want in life, what love means to you and what are your expectations from this relationship? Forgetting about this can lead you to avoid important eye contact if will not carry the self-believe and confidence in your dating partner.
Being nervous is not too bad and it can happen to any one. But, getting too withdrawn and not come out of your shell can also spoil the whole date night. This is where extra care should be taken and to follow your instincts. If you feel that you are not getting enough ideas to talk about try to talk something both of you have in common or some common interest. If you have been matched by online dating sites then this gives you good opportunity to discuss what the dating website found common in you.
There are never any situations that does not leave the door open that gives you an opportunity to start discussions, but you need to find that opportunity. Comment on this article and share your stories as to what you think one should do especially when one feels somewhat low on the date night.
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Relationship is a two way thing - perk it up with some exciting tips
Tuesday, April 24th, 2012
The first date is an important one for many of us but yet we limit the number of venues or events for this eventful time. For example, we usually do one of these things; movies, dinner date, walk in the park or sit down at a coffee house. Although, there is absolutely nothing wrong with these type of events especially if you are meeting up for the first time, there is a whole world of possibilities that you could be missing out and enhance your relationship.
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Remember not to take dating events as simply just another event, think of it as a way of getting intimately close to your dating partner. What makes your partner tick, what makes you tick and what events could bring out this information and make the whole event fun and a memorable one. Of course, it has been said that if couples do like each other, the actual event or venue becomes secondary to their own presence with each other. This may be true, but if you think about it, how well do you know this person, you may have a tingling sensation when you are with this person but is that enough?
The natural design for couples dating is to use a combination of their heads and heart when it comes to summing up each other. If the focus is too much on the feelings then we could be in for a torrential roller coaster of a ride where we literally fall off from the other end! If we keep our feelings in check and make the practicalities of life as an important factor in determining the partner’s suitability then we have a balanced approach and to all intents and purposes this is probably the correct approach.
Think about it, if you are finding frivolously wandering through life going aimlessly from one partner to another, then something is amiss. Either you have your standards way up high and you need to appreciate the real facts in life and perhaps focus more on your partner rather than what you want. If you have a lack of partners, this could be due to the lack of communication between the opposite sex and not being able to go deep enough with anyone about your own personal feelings and thoughts.
Whatever the reasons could be, it is always a good idea to take the emphasis away from ‘you’ and concentrate on the greater and broader things in life that awaits you. Next time you go out on a date, try to think outside of the box and instead of what you can get out of it, see what you can give back.
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Learning from others to reach loftier levels in free dating sites
Saturday, March 31st, 2012
Most of us whiz through life without thinking of the consequences of doing something or the effects it has on us and on other people. It is important to think for a moment when you undertake anything, after all this is exactly how many of the super companies have come to be ie. Apple, McDonalds, Chevron etc.
One can also learn from the previous great thinkers of our time who have managed to single-handedly change the way of thinking of the masses. It is not required for us to follow in the same path but at least we can take a leaf out of history and apply some of it to our daily lives. One of the most significant trait they all had in order to succeed in their goals was the ability to think beyond their own borders. The easy way out wasn’t an option for them, they sought something different and were challenged sufficiently to literally drive them to their desired goals.
We don’t think when we are complimented with remarks such as ‘She is a good mother’, ‘He is very gentle’ or ‘She is really great at cooking cakes’. These remarks come about because we not only take pride in doing those things but also we are very passionate about it.
We can apply the same logic when searching for our dating partner on the free dating sites. If you come with a pessimistic view that the work you will will be a bit of drudgery, it will likely turn out that way. So how do you generate enough interest in the area of finding the perfect date? One tip is try to break the task down to smaller bits. I was recently watching an interview of Lionel Richie with Piers Morgan of CNN and he said something that struck a chord with me. Lionel said that simplifying the process of what people wanted to hear was at the heart of his success. We can surely apply this to our daily endeavors including our search for that ideal date!
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