You may have come across blogs or articles on way to tell whether you are boring in the eyes of your dating partner. Often, we don’ t realize that we are not being very interesting and need to make sure that dating doesn’t have to be boring. To begin with, there is always room to turn around a boring conversation. But that begins with learning to recognize when there is a problem. Figure out who has been doing most of the talking. If it is you hogging the limelight then allow your date to chime in and cut back on your speed of conversation. Your date may be bored for the simple reason that you haven’t given him or her the chance to speak. That can be frustrating to say the least. Take a deep breath and learn to listen. You will realize your folly and that dating doesn’t have to be boring.

Think of a topic that interests both of you. If there isn’t too much to talk about on the subject then move over to the next. Variety is the spice of life which is another reason why dating doesn’t have to be boring. You also need to learn not to confuse boredom with nervousness. If your date is nervous you need to pitch in with funny story about yourself, even if it is a wee bit embarrassing. This will loosen him or her up and let them know you are enjoying your date too. Of course, there will be plenty of funny stories to share if you have been dating online for a while.