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Dating in India (article link) is considered as a doorway to having introductions rather than an association of two people who meet, date, fall in love and then maybe marry or not marry.

In India the process of marriage is involving and includes other members of the
family in the decision making process.

Thus dating is considered as a prelude to a long term relationship rather than a shor term fling and most likely leading to marriage.

Although this opinion may not be common with all women from India and in particular the way they have been brought up in the West.

You can usually tell this from observing the behaviour and atitude of your date.

Woman who still hold onto these traditional viewpoints are more likely to be shy and less agressive and would want the man to always lead.

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Even though the woman may consider a longer term view, don’t feel that this maybe intimidating to your situation.

You may very well find the effort that you put into the dating and to the relationship afterwards could have big rewards for you.

Think of it this way, any women who are very particular about the men they choose to meet and date are likely to be good long-term suitors.

If you are looking for a short term relationship then its probably better to steer away from these kind of dates due to the long-term investment required in this type of relationship.

These long term viewpoints also implies that physical intimacy can very well be delayed until a level of trust and confidence has been developed within the relationship.

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In terms of mannerism, the man is expected to be on their best behavior and be as gentlemen and courteous as possible.

Any contact between the man and woman should be left to the woman to make the move first rather than the man.

Any move by the man maybe construed as too aggressive by the woman and would potentially close any chance of subsequent dates.

Normally women of this background are often impressed by the chivalrous behavior by their date such as pulling out the chair when seating, opening doors and even paying for dinner.

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Usually there are no restrictions on the subject of conversation and you can pretty much talk about any topics that interests either of you.

The usual etiquette of conversation applies where you need to show consideration during the conversation and if the person is a bit shy, try to pick up on something of interest to both of you.

In terms of where to go for a date, usually anything is acceptible to the woman as long as its not too outrageous.

However, try to keep it to something less extravagant such as a movie, dinner or even coffee.

The conversation between the two is more important to this initial date.

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At the end of the date and usually during the course of the date, you will know whether
your dating partner is interested in you or not.

If the date is going very well, do not expect anything frisky on your first date, it is best to observe her from the conservation and study the body language to gauge interest.

However, the important thing is to show your interest and make your intentions clear by saying how you enjoyed the date and you would want to do this again.

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