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Online dating tips for women - Part 8 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Sunday, March 6th, 2011
Article Subject: Online dating tips for women - Part 8
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
When you decide to meet in person for a date, do not do this over the email or instant messenger, talk to them over the phone and then decide on a public place to meet.
Since its highly likely that you will be living local you should decide to meet at least half-way and in a public place such as a McDonalds, Starbucks or other reputable public establishments. I would recommend on the first date to keep the conversation light and so don’t rely on a dinner date since this may weigh on both individuals in terms of cost and time especially if there is no chemistry between the two.
It has often been found from reading people’s comments on the first date that the conversation over the phone was very different to the actual meeting. As one lady put it, ‘it was a very awkward conversation’ and this is often because some people are poor communicators over the phone than in person and vice versa.
meeting online and in person can be two totally different experiences
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Online dating tips for women - Part 5 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Sunday, March 6th, 2011
Article Subject: Online dating tips for women - Part 5
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
Now that you have had a good scrounge around the profile and have a pretty good idea who the person is all about, you need to make a few decisions. Sometimes the message that you read may be the deal-breaker because it hasn’t been written well and maybe with typos that a six year old can do better, or being too sexually aggressive in nature or it maybe just too short and not saying much.
I wouldn’t lose hope on the latter where the note can be too short but not at all obnoxious because it can be a simple way to generate an interest in you. You may receive a love poem or a poetically written note which could potentially move you, but again remember the other person maybe sending that out to all of his female matches.
What you should be looking for is someone who has had the time to read your profile and said something to that effect, this shows someone who has singled you out and paying attention to the types of women he wants to meet.
messages can say a lot about the person in online dating
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Online dating tips for women - Part 4 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Saturday, March 5th, 2011
Article Subject: Online dating tips for women - Part 4
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
The first thing one has to do when you come across a profile that really interests you, is to look at the profile objectively rather than subjectively. This means that you shouldn’t really attach any emotion to the profile, although this can be hard to do. It is okay to be interested and excited about the profile but having an emotional attachment to it may lead to disappointment.
You need to be sure that the profile is as good as it looks on paper as it is in person. However, since your time is precious you need to be sure that the time you invest in pursing any interesting profiles are worthwhile.
You need to really examine the profile.
Look over all the details such as occupation, photos, interests, hobbies and anything that they describe about themselves. This will give you a good insight to what they are all about and also to make sure that all the information checks out and there are no discrepancies. For example, age can be a dead giveaway by comparing the year they completed the education to the actual age they specify.
make sure that the dating profile checks out before proceeding further
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Online dating tips for women - Part 2 - Online Dating Briefs by Dr. Dato
Saturday, March 5th, 2011
Article Subject: Online dating tips for women - Part 2
Dr. Dato’s Brief:
In part 1 we discussed how the online dating scene can be somewhat a ’shock’ for some people especially women who have just started using this medium to find potential suitors.
Preparing yourself with some knowledge gleaned from here can help you stay on the right track without becoming too frustrated by the whole process of online dating. As mentioned previously, the accessibility of the online medium does open the doors to many people with many different backgrounds and personalities. Think of it this way, you are entering a night club where there are hardly any bouncers at the door and everyone is pretty much ‘good to go’ in this establishment of meeting like minded singles.
So you can imagine the types of people that can be found in the ‘bar’ from all age groups, orientations, religion, beliefs, sex gender, even some people with just a passing interest in dating can be found here.
It would be unfair to say there are no screening of any kind going on at the dating site ‘door’, some sites like Jumpdates.com do in fact screen all new members by hand, so only a good and serious crowd with real intentions stay on the site.
could online dating be compared to night clubs without the bouncers?
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