Always thinking of your approach using pick up lines is clearly wrong and it will not improve your chances of finding suitable dates.

I have occasionally used lines such as ‘I like you, let’s have coffee’ or ‘there’s a good movie playing called xxx and wandering if you wanted to see this with me, I would enjoy your company’.

Women have a great sense in detecting subtleties that some men simply cannot pick up on and they typically use answer to their inner calling when deciding whom to date.

Please do not think that being a good talker is all it takes to get along in life, in fact these people can have a hard time brushing off criticisms. Again the question of balance is important to this equation, don’t be too extroverted and dominate the conversation, be just right and have good listening skills.