All of us have boundaries and to what extent we push these boundaries can define our own personality and the opinion of others. Let me give you a simple example, if we remain within the boundaries of our own town or city we are not experiencing the full measure of the different experiences of other cities or towns let alone other countries or cultures. We do this of our own volition and it can clearly define what boundaries we have set for our own selves and naturally affects the way we interact with people and in our own relationships.

What are boundaries and how can it help us in our relationships

In addition to the boundaries that we have set within ourselves which is usually determined by our own comfort zone, some of us open those boundaries with interactions with others. It may be due to financial constraints or some other that we simply cannot extend our boundaries in order to embody the full experiences of the unknown that often lift us higher. In such cases we have the human interaction that can give us a glimpse of the outer boundaries. We often find that older people through their wisdom can be very accommodating to our own needs and requirements in which case they have opened up their own boundaries through the interaction of their loved ones.

How do we go about extending our boundaries such that it enriches all of our lives? To a large extent, this has been done through the internet with the readily available information at our fingertips. It is important to remember that in addition to this vast array of knowledge which sparks of interest and passion, we have the capacity to reach out to people who have very new experiences than ourselves. This enables us to extend our own boundaries and enhance the quality of our lives and at the same time develop very likeable qualities perceived by other people.