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To be effective in body language requires a keen sense of observation of the small and subtle nuances of the body movements of the people during a conversation or a social event.

The environment and the type of social gathering will also determine the scope of the body language in order to effect an outcome ie. making a sale, getting a date etc.

Here we will describe the context of body language as it applies to the male in approaching a woman for a date.

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We have all grown up with different beliefs and understanding of the world and our interpretation of it can be very different from each other.

In the dating scene we have often witnessed many men who are very successful in dating other women and some smart and even very intelligent men who are not.

However, that is not to say that each one of us put dating equally above anything else.

For example, a bachelor may be perfectly happy to date and only do so in very rare occasions at his choosing.

There are some of us who choose to date but don’t have the energy or inclination to do so and this can be defeating.

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There may be many reasons for this such as feeling of having tried but always unlucky in that department.

Other times we also see that having been rejected a few times by women may bruise our self-confidence and be very shy to ask again.

As many people know but do not grasp, is that with success comes following after many failures.

For some men who dismiss women as ‘difficult’ and not worthwhile do not appreciate the primeval instincts that exists in women as well as some other men.

If you look at it objectively, you will see that women are generally smaller and physically weaker than men and the biological instinct of men is to mate with women.

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The feeling of sexual desire and wanting is exceptionally strong in both sexes, particularly men in the early stages of dating and this has resulted in women having to keep the men always in check.

They need to prevent unnecessary advances by men to protect themselves against potentially sex hungry predators.

Their immediate reaction to any men, particularly strangers is that of ‘aloofness’ and reserve unless they know you somewhat.

There may be occasions when some women may greet you with a nice smile and seem very accommodating but these women generally are testing you out.

The initial stand-offish reaction by women can put off some men and they may easily give u and stop trying.

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The initial ‘cold’ nature of the women in the first instance is not a signal to stop trying, in fact throughout history woman generally land man by this initial pre-screening.

Woman are biologically wired to find a suitable mate and procreate and so they look for men who are capable of not just looking after her but also prepared to go the ‘long haul’ of taking care of the off springs and the many hurdles that will come in their way.

It is this reason why women are not always into looks and prefer the confident man who knows where he stands in life, stable, trustworthy and an action man.

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