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Your body stature is important to your well being
Wednesday, January 9th, 2013
Why is body stature important to one’s welfare you may very well ask?
A great comedian Peter Sellers once said that the portrayal of characters in his movies would always start from the ‘walk’. This would imply that one’s stature may tell a lot about one’s personality. I have my own ideas regarding this and will explain the importance of why it’s important to have a good stature.
If you observe people carefully, their walk and the way they stand can say a lot about the type of person he/she is. It can effectively describe the persons demure and whether they are soft or aggressive in personality. We can see how Peter Sellers used the walk to define his characters that he would play. If you were sad, the walk would reflect this and you will likely take small and slower steps with a crouched stature. If you were happy, the same body would spring to life and you will likely stand strong in stature with quick, swift movements of your body.
One point to bear in mind when you read self-help books is that trying to change yourself for the better may not be all that effective. Without the genuine interest to change or the desire for the new you, then it would turn into failure. Your body will reflect this and it will be something that others will be able to detect and appear a little bit fake. Your spoken thoughts and words will be in conflict with the movements of your body. This is probably where body language have been effectively used by people to read people’s inner thoughts outside of what they say or do.
To better yourself in both mind and body, you should use your body as a barometer. If you wanted to improve a particular trait in yourself, look to your body movement, posture and stature and see if it has made any difference. You will probably need to work a bit harder or change certain aspects of your training to harmonize and bring balance to the two. Next time, you are looking to self-improve, look at your body and stature and see what this is telling you.
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What is flirting and why is it important?
Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
We often use the term flirting to describe a playful act between opposite sexes. In actual fact, flirting can be used in other areas of human interaction. The definition of flirting as described in the Merriam-Webster dictionary has several meanings.. (1) To behave erratically, (2) to behave amorously without serious intent, (3) to come close to reaching something etc. As you can see it is a general meaning not specifically associated with an outcome between opposite sexes. Here we describe how we can make best use of flirting and how it can be used to help us improve our social lives.
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What is flirting and why is it important? - Part 2
Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
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It makes complete sense to be knowledgeable in these areas because by understanding more of these overlooked and missed signals from these techniques help us to communicate more effectively and do not leave ambiguity to chance.
human interaction helps us to be better in our lives
This can also have an increased beneficial effect on our lives, as it creates more positive energy and we are able to connect more deeply with other people.
As a result our mood, attitude and frame of mind we have toward life can change for the better.
Like all skills, it can be learnt but again the person needs to be open-minded and aware that such concepts are not within their vocabulary now but they will soon be if given time and patience.
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What is flirting and why is it important? - Part 3
Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
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Most of all they have to be prepared to accepting these ‘new’ thought patterns.
It’s the basic premise that if you go toward learning something new with a certain kind of attitude, you are likely to deliver on that promise.
a positive atitude is almost always followed by a positive outcome
To give you an example, if a student’s attitude from a class is just to learn the bare minimum, he/she is likely to fulfill that promise.
However, if a student is anxious to learn as much as they can, he/she is likely to achieve that by going that extra mile.
However, the actual meaning of the open-minded approach is not fully understood or appreciated by many students and I too have often missed the true meaning and sense of this.
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What is flirting and why is it important? - Part 4
Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
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For example, I enjoy salsa dancing and as I improved over time my interests in other forms of dancing came alive.
keeping an open mind requires having no previous bias or opinions
At that time, I was also dabbling with Tango and I thought surely some of my accomplished skill sets in Salsa dancing would get me up to speed in Tango in no time.
I tried for a year to learn Tango and got increasingly frustrated, as I was not able to execute the beauty and elegance of the moves like the other dancers who seem to have a deep connection with this dance with their partner.
I stumbled and tried to correct my mistakes and almost gave up trying.
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