We have all flared up at some point during a heated conversation or argument with someone or something and when we look back we all believe we were within our rights. We need to be more conscious of what we say and what we do because there are many times when we only like to believe our side of the story…

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Often our personality is described by others with terms such as ‘you are stubborn’, ‘lazy’, ‘cold’ etc. but this kind of categorization doesn’t really help us to address the problem effectively.

Labeling in this manner without having some definitions or clear examples are a sure sign to continuous protracted arguments with your partner or loved ones.

clarity in your message is important to communication

There have been many books written on a specific human flaw that is lacking in some of us and this is assertion.

The books go to great lengths describing how to be more assertive with others without dwelling into the root cause of the problem and how some of us came to be this way.

Often the cause or lack of assertion is swept away by the explanation of childhood experiences where our fears usually stem from and carried into the adulthood.

Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 3 >>>

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There are no magical solutions to solve our day to day problems and being assertive is by no means the only corrective behavior that will bring harmony to our lives.

The complex nature of our personalities and how we interact with other people is exceptionally diverse and there have been great thinkers of our time such as Sigmund Freud and many publications and works have been written on this subject.

we are all unique individuals

I believe it is up to us as individuals to look intelligently at our own unique situations and utilize our own knowledge and information available to us to sort out our own personal problems.

The capacity to solve our own problems and at the same time improve our lives will also depend on having a good body of knowledge in certain areas.

Top search engines such as Google have made information very accessible to all of us.

Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 4 >>>

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Today, in this fast paced modern lifestyle, we are constantly looking for ways for quick ‘fixes’ be it for entertainment, food, pills, books etc.

Many books on self improvement are readily available to us and feed this craving and demand.

we are all looking for quick fixes such as medicine

Typical examples of quick fixes include medication which has become so predominant in society that there are now pills available for every conceivable type of ailments that one can think of.

Instead of letting our body fight off some of these ailments and build our own immunity system, we are continuously feeding our body with medications and becoming dependant on this and our immunity system suffers.

Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 5 >>>

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This fast paced society we live in makes us feel that there is a cure and answer to everything and we neglect to use our minds more efficiently for any tasks at hand.

If you look at the complex make-up of our personality we are all very different from each other and we all have our unique set of phantasms, fears, tribulations and joy that we carry with us and shape our lives.

thinking affects how we behave

We may even harbor a ‘feeling’ locked inside of us that happened many years ago and replay it again and again in our heads.

This basically goes to show how we ‘think’ as individuals are significant to the way we live and how we continue to perceive our existence shaped by these thoughts past, present and future.

Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 6 >>>