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T. Time is the richest treasure. Spend time to plan and prepare every time before your date. Invest your time in deciding your outfit, hairdo and footwear and don’t keep it for the last minute.

U. Understand each other rather than judging on the basis of physical attractiveness. Spend time to know each other better and understand the chemistry you share.

V. Visualize the dating scenario beforehand. Dates make each person anxious. If an un-toward incident does happen keep a plan ready as to how you will gracefully get out of it.

W. Wisdom is in-born. Learn to use it every time. Use your wisdom when you dress up for a date. Girls avoid revealing outfits unless you are ready for the reaction. Be wise in deciding the dating venue by keeping in mind the dating scams that are rampant now a days.

X. EXcitement is an integral part of dating. Make dating exciting by thinking out of the box. Maybe working out together, some adventure activity, working for a social cause together or attending a concert adds spice to dating rather than going to a bar or dinner as usual.

Y. ‘You’ should be the focus of your attention and not me when you are on a date. Pay attention to him/her, listen attentively and enjoy the discussion rather than boasting and talking about ‘I, me, myself’ which will surely turn your date away.

Z. Zeal and enthusiasm makes dating livelier. No matter what trouble you went through that day, let it not affect your date night. Be zealous about dating so both of you can enjoy the time spent together.

After reading this, give yourself time to think in details before your date night and how you can make it more meaningful.

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M. Manage your finances well and don’t go overboard to spend on your date. Plan your budget so that you don’t go around borrowing money from friends to please your date and fall in a debt trap. If you are unable to get out of the debt then remember you will lose your friends and your date as well.

N. Never force your date to do something he or she doesn’t want to do. No matter what the activity, decide mutually if you should go ahead with it so that both of you enjoy it equally.

O. Odd Couple? Think about your relationship before you go on the next date. Listen to your intuition which will tell you whether you are made for each other or not. Don’t force yourself into a relationship which will ultimate fall apart and cause heart break.

P. Perfumes trigger the brain and create a mood. Carefully choose a perfume you will wear when on a date. Make sure your date is not allergic to fragrances or asthmatic else he/she will have to run away from you.

Q. Questions should be asked but not to probe into the privacy of the individual. Keep your conversation healthy even when it gets intimate.

R. Respect each other for who you are. Don’t expect the person to change as per your whims and fancies. Accept him/her and let the simple dating relationship grow into a beautiful long term relationship.

S. Smile increases face value. It takes 17 muscles to smile and 43 muscles to frown. A smiling face relaxes not only you but your date as well. A smile conveys happiness at seeing him/her. So smile always no matter what!

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F. Fitness plays a major role especially when dating. Follow a fitness regime by going to the gym or yoga or any other form of exercise. Workout is not only for the body but for the fitness of the mind as well. You can think of adding spice to dating by working out together.

G. Gifting is an expression of affection and care. Shower each other with gifts just to tell the other person that you are always on my mind.

H. Hygiene is very important for a relationship to blossom. Shower, perfume, clip nails, a good hair do that suits you are a must when you go on a date.

I. Intimacy does not develop on first meeting. Give each other time to develop that closeness before you start getting physical.

J. Just say no when you don’t agree to something. Voice your opinion rather than just being meek and accepting his/her word and getting stressed about it later.

K. Keep it simple. Don’t load your date with unnecessary stories about your ex or your family. Know each other better as this understanding will benefit both of you in the long run.

L. Laughter is the best medicine. Humor plays a wonderful role in strengthening a relationship. ‘People, who laugh together, live together’. Learn to be witty and humorous and you will always be thought of with a smile.

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Dating marks the beginning of a relationship, grows with understanding and blossoms into a long term relationship with expert advice. Each person is nervous before a date night as there is the sense of excitement of meeting him/her and spending time together. There is no check list to prepare for a date night though here are a few tips which will help you prepare and be relaxed enough to make dating enjoyable and fulfilling.

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A. Arrive two minutes before the decided time whether you are the guy or the gal. Keeping the other person waiting immediately conveys your disinterest no matter how genuine a reason you have for getting late. Plan your time to get ready and to reach the decided place keeping in mind the traffic, road jams or any other situation that may arise to cause delay. Better to reach before time and wait rather than keep him/her waiting.

B. Body Language conveys a lot more than the spoken word. This unspoken communication is not rocket science. Learn a few basic interpretations and apply them when you are out on a date. Open palms convey openness while folded arms convey the person has gone into a shell.

C. Confidence and communication is the key to a successful relationship. Learn to be a good communicator. Read a lot to increase your general knowledge and awareness so you can make interesting conversation every time. This will automatically improve your confidence and there will be no conflict within you.

D. Dress up in a manner as per your date. If it’s a casual date a pair of jeans with a dressy tee goes well for both. If it’s a formal date then take care to dress formally. Guys should wear trousers and button down shirt while gals can wear a long dress. Both must wear smart accessories like a watch and belt with well polished shoes for the guys while girls should wear a neck piece and wrist adornment with most comfortable footwear.

E. Eyes are truly the mirror to your heart. If you wear glasses, select ones that will enhance your personality. Glasses are becoming one of the best fashionable accessories to improve your looks. Maintain eye contact to convey interest in what your date and the conversation. Wavering eyes show your confusion or convey boredom.

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