Shyness can get in the way of dating – Part 8
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In order to break into the ‘barrier’ of the group, the shy person must fully understand that the distorted viewpoint they have created earlier has no bearing within the group.
It should be dismissed as nothing but pure fantasy and everyone’s input in the conversation is permitted no matter how bad or good.
fantasy is an illusion just like shyness
This leads me to the other qualm that shy people often face which is saying something of importance to the group or not saying anything at all.
The fact that they are waiting to say something which will be meaningful and purposeful to the group means they will miss the opportunity many a times and as a result their anxiety levels increase.
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