Shyness can get in the way of dating – Part 5
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We have surmised that the first task of tackling shyness requires an understanding and acceptance of the problem.
The next task requires us to reflect on how we deal with our self in a open social environment.
Typically a normal behavior of a shy person while in a group engaged in a discussion is to remain quiet and let the others talk it out.
The shy person may feel involved in the discussion but indirectly many internal feelings and thoughts are going on inside of the shy person.
There is a tendency for the shy person to say something but all the time restraining from saying anything in case it didn’t come out correctly.
This kind of self consciousness is more acute in the shy person and it is precisely this that prevents the person from saying much during the conversation.
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