How do you take decision in relationship …emotional or intelligent?
It’s no wonder that divorce rates are going high as singles think after they are making a decision to commit. There are many who decide to commit and after only a few months start thinking that their decision was whether right or wrong. This could have all been avoided if they did the thinking before committing.
How do you take decision in relationship
Some might think from their heart and some by using more of their brain. There is a common belief that in love you don’t think from your head and you should listen to your heart but, this is changing at a fast pace as relationships are getting more demanding than ever before which leads to more heartbreaks.
That is why you should take decisions that are perfectly balanced between that feeds you emotionally and that which proves to be intelligent so both of your can benefit tremendously in the short and long term.
Here are top emotional questions you should ask.
1. Do I love him/her or it’s just an attraction that is not going to last more than a few weeks.
2. Are we understanding each other or not. Understanding is not about knowing the facts of likes and dislikes only but way beyond that. It’s the chemistry and personality match that make two people stay together in the long-haul.
3. If both of you care about your past you should both know about it rather than creating any misunderstandings later on.
4. Do both of you have the same emotional quotient needed for a balanced and steady relationship.
Here are top questions to answers while making intelligent decisions regarding your relationship.
1. Don’t flow in the rush of emotions and ask yourself that are you prepared for the responsibility that follows.
2. Every relationship goes through good and bad times, ask yourself that are you capable of resolving those issues on you own or will it break down through time.
3. Are you equipped to give each other moral and emotional support? This is tricky as no one will answer in the negative but on the testing day you should perform the role of protector and carer without any issues.
We are sure that there are many things that you would love to add to this list to make decisions in an emotionally balanced way as well as in an intelligent way. Here is your chance to make it richer by commenting on this with more real life issues.
Tags: dating help for singletons, emotional relationship, relationship help for singletons
Your attraction wears off in a week? Wow!
I would probably try not to be emotional but sincere.
Love is based on a well-rounded knowledge of a person’s strengths and weaknesses. It’s hardly surprising, then, that love is much more than a feeling. Love is, among other things, “long-suffering and kind. . . . It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.” And love makes a person act in these ways based on knowledge—not on credulity or ignorance.
As I see it from a perspective over time of 30 yrsi or more. It seems to be a function of age.
When I was younger 20_ 30s all decisions were primarily a result of emotional feelings thus heart felt actions.
Now days it doesnt mater how cute she is ,it comes down to the logistics of living and surviving the
Multitute of daily problems.
Thus a woman for me has to be very down to Earth in her thinking,this high maintenance crap should
Be in the past by now.
One have to consider everything before taking decision…it should be varied and must be flexible enough to cover emotional satisfaction and intelligent needs as well
Decision both taken is never wrong nor right…Remember it takes two to tango..
i go for intelligent
A pure definition of love is “insuring you life under someone care, not because they can’t hurt you but believing you are save in his/her hands” its only normal that one should have knowledge of his/her spouse but every relationship will succeed more when it is handled emotionally.