Getting the Dates You Want - part 2
Although God has given us the capacity to dream, he has also provided us with able bodies and mind to take action. You will need to separate fact from fiction, in other words you can dream as long as you want of the ‘night in shining armour’, or that beautiful girl walking up to you and seducing way. You can’t dismiss the possibility that this could happen but don’t depend on it too much and for too long.
Getting the Dates You Want - part 2
Take a good look at yourself and ask yourself if other people apart from your close friends and families will have any idea what you are like under that facade of yours. Don’t expect others to adore you or expect you to be so and so just because you feel they must. You need to demonstrate your worthiness to other people, in the same way that you need to prove your worth to your boss at work. We have discussed many topics on the subject of breaking the ice and when you do break the ice, you need to swiftly prove that you are a decent person that anyone can date and feel comfortable. This immediately implies that you need to be considerate and accepting of the other person you are talking to.
There are many books that talk about how to break the ice and what follows, but the best advice is just be yourself and let the conversation take its natural path. We will be introducing more articles on these subjects to arm all those singles out there and make sure they build enough confidence and courage to get the dates they want and the lives they want. In the meantime, please go ahead and do some searches in our search box on the right and look up hundreds of articles already posted here on these topics.
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