Even if you are the shy type your first date chat shouldn’t be something that intimidates you. When you begin to date online you end up gaining confidence. The secret is that over time you get to know qualities of your date so you need to stick to topics based on his or her interests. Guys, lay off the big game talk unless your date is the sporty kind, and girls, lay off the ‘how much do you earn’ talk on your first date. There is plenty of time for that. You aren’t going to get off to a good start on any of these topics. Your first date chat needs to be simple and light-hearted. Share experiences about each other. Be a good listener and don’t butt in the conversation. You would come across as being rude.

Remember, on your first date chat your partner isn’t on trial so steer clear of any topic that is too personal. Leave that for later on. Don’t even go for the ‘so what do you think of me’ line. That’s putting someone in an awkward situation. If there is a connection things will fall in place sooner than you expect. Take the opportunity to discover more about your partner during a first date chat. This is the time to check if there are qualities you are looking for. The more you date the more qualities you get to identify. Just be patient and make sure you aren’t turning an evening of fun into an interview of sorts.

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