Facing the Music - Disclosing the truth to your Loved One
Have you kept a lie from your partner or a date and you wanted it to get it off yours shoulders so much? The same situation is true with Lance Armstrong who now has to handle this truth but more importantly he needs to come to terms with himself. The problem in his case is that he led this lie over a good part of his lifetime and he may very well open up to the public and say how sorry he is. However, if he is not sincere or apologetic enough, he may be doing the same thing as before, which is putting the wool over other people’s lives. Ultimately, he will be a failure for not taking it to his heart.
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Many of us can fall into this category and will be very washed up in our old ways that the ability to correct ourselves will be insurmountable. This is where we need to totally let go of the past and put all your cards on the table. Having controlled most of our lives through deceit or manipulation will make it difficult for some of us to let go so easily. It will take a brave face and a courageous human being to lay down all the cards on the table.
If you find yourself in the midst of a lie, you may want to consider just letting go and see where it will take you. Who is to know what the future holds for us, don’t assume you know the person you are dealing with. A sincere admission can be a good thing in the eyes of someone else rather than the finicky path of betrayal and trust. Sometimes the best thing to do is submit control and let it be, much like a baby who is not hesitant about crying on the mother’s bosom any time it feels like it.
