Returned 39 results for 'Monthly Archives: May, 2012'
Who’s proposing First by Going down on Knees
Thursday, May 10th, 2012
Who should propose first, men or women? This is one of the most debated topics when it comes to relationships. Ever since men and women discovered the feelings called love this existed and they seems to carry the same when they come to proposing on free dating sites.
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Here is the scenario of a long distance relationship as online singles meet on free dating sites and start messaging each other and still hesitate to propose. Study shows that women are more apprehensive in proposing first which could be the reason why they are a lot choosier than males and this is why even in online messaging women don’t take the initiative and propose and also as per the law of nature women take nine months to reproduce.
This choosy behavior of females can be witnessed in other different areas like they take more time in shopping than males or making decisions in choosing what to eat when they hang out and even on free dating sites as they scroll through hundreds of sites. This is almost the laws of nature and going down to the knees and proposing is something a man has to do for decades to come.
Comment on this and tell us what you think are the reasons why women don’t take the initiative.
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Effective communication with assertion are keys to a good relationship - Part 2
Thursday, May 10th, 2012
Effective communication with assertion are keys to a good relationship - Part 1
The problems of communication are further exacerbated when one speaks with more conviction than the other. In this situation, this person takes on a lead role and is able to exercise more control and the outcome of the conversation. Effectively the power is rendered to that individual without he or she not knowing about it. It is important that each one has to assert their own rights in order for the relationship to work. If the other person is mature enough, they will give you room to voice your opinions and also your rights as an individual. However, in many cases this power and control can be highly provocative to the individual exercising it, then it becomes difficult to divulge any of this power. Hence the significant importance of assertion.
If assertion does not work through communication via conversation there are other methods which one could deploy such as the silent treatment. However, one must realize that it is far better to communicate your feelings and ideas rather than resort to such tactics. If you are finding yourself not communicating effectively, it is likely that there is a power struggle in the relationship and the ideas or feelings are simply not being communicated effectively through assertion.
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Effective communication with assertion are keys to a good relationship - Part 1
Thursday, May 10th, 2012
There are two sides to communication and that is the speaker and the listener and the roles change alternately when effective communication is taking place. However, there are times when we are not able to say what we want to say for various reasons. This is where in addition to listening skills, you also need to be assertive at the right times.
Effective communication with assertion are keys to a good relationship - Part 1
Have you ever felt after a meeting or encounter with your loved one that you should have taken a different stance in something you both discussed. This happens when we are not able to assert ourselves strongly for fear of being embarrassed or hurting the other person. In actual fact the problem is more prevalent with men than they are with a women. Why? It’s because women in general have little fear about speaking their mind and they do so without always looking at the repercussions of what they are saying. Men on the other hand are more inclined to weigh the facts in a logical form before speaking. Of course there will be differences in both men and women in this regard.
Effective communication with assertion are keys to a good relationship - Part 2
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Why Single Parents Struggle in Starting Dating Again
Wednesday, May 9th, 2012
Everyone wants a loving partner and life long relationship. But, all are not lucky and after getting separated, life of a single parent becomes very busy as they have to play a dual role of a caring parent at home and a daring individual professional at the workplace. This makes single parents very busy and some tend to neglect their own love life.
Why Single Parents Struggle in Starting Dating Again
According to the stats provided by the U.S. census bureau in 2009 about 84% of the mothers and 16% of fathers are single parents. This is surpassing as males are financially more stable than females. This is a different topic and we might discuss this on some other day. The world with broken heart can look ugly which empties the love factor from you heart and from the mind and you don’t want to relive the same experience.
Taking a bit of time off from dating will be a good idea in an ideal situation but, denying the need for mental support that only your partner can provide is not right. Apart from this mental need every individual also has a physical need.
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Romanticism in a world of uncertain love
Wednesday, May 9th, 2012
Romanticism today has a whole new meaning today and many would apply the word not just to your sweetheart or lover but in other areas too. If one looked up the definition of romanticism in Google, the word refers to the movement in the late 18th and early 19th century where there was an artistic and intellectual movement coupled with individual expression and creativity.
Romanticism in a world of uncertain love
One would consider being romantic would be a expression of heightened sense of feeling as a result of being in the presence of a lover or a date. Effectively, this elevated feeling in oneself maybe a consequence of an individual who has unlocked the inner feelings of love (please see the previous blog post ‘The sordid truth…’). However, unlike love, romanticism is likely a consequence of the deeper feelings that comes from the elated feeling of love within.
Real life romantics stories - Romantics: A Blend of Romance and Politics
Romanticism is usually centered around nature and the effect this can have upon us. For example, the creativity and wonderment of science and its place in witnessing the grander visions of everything around us. Many of the romanticist of the last century have produced great works of art and literature. Next time you find yourself with a heightened sense of romanticism, it could be that you are not just in love but in a phase where you also have a high capacity to be very creative.
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