Can we be sure about someone when we first meet them for a date. Don’t be so quick to dismiss someone when dating them for the first time, here is an interesting story…

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You get up from the dinner table and you walk somewhere quite and you come back to the table and say “Listen, one of my friends has just broken up with her long-term boyfriend, she is in a terrible state, I really need to see her”.

Then you say your good-bye and leave.

This above is a perfectly good way of dismissing an unwanted date but one can be creative in the process and it can be fun too!

Below is how you do the perfect act of deception and having your wits all around you.

You also learn a thing or two by doing this.

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Now for the Perfect Act:

The above Act mentioned earlier appears to be quite simple enough and straightforward, but in fact there are many ‘areas’ of this act that have potential holes that you need to patch up otherwise you will leave your dating partner standing and wanting more.

To make the situation totally believable and less contrived, here is what you must do.

You pretend that the phone is vibrating and you quickly glance at it.

It’s important you do it in this manner, because you want to give the impression to your date that the dinner date is more important to you than a simple phone call.

You want to give your undivided attention to your dating partner.

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Make out that the phone call is nothing important and you couldn’t careless.

But wait, after you quickly glance at the screen and you see a familiar number showing up and you almost gasp in amazement!

Please make sure not to show your blank phone screen to your date, so I would suggest that you curl the phone with your hand.

This is acceptable since when in public we have a natural tendency to ‘hide’ what we are doing from the prying eyes of the public.

If you are a New York resident, this act is very convincing and works perfectly well, for example the long subway ride in a busy train to Long Island when you are texting.

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As you look on in horror and amazement you gasp “Oh my God, its my friend Zaraan, she finally broke up with Joshua”.

Notice the use of names that are not in our every day vocabulary for example John and Karen.

Use exotic names because this makes you sound better and your date will think you have very interesting friends.

Notice also, we added the words ‘she finally…’ because the choice of words is also very important.

The fact that your friend just didn’t simply broke up but in fact it was something waiting to happen for a long time.

When it did happen, POWWW! the whole of New York shook. This is very convincing to your other date, who up to now is not only following your act but fixated by it.

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