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By focusing on the act or thing that makes you resentful, you should look into yourself and find out how to overcome this deep seated emotion.

In this way you can go about the corrective behavior necessary for you to feel more comfortable with yourself or something.

finding truth gives meaning to many issues in life

If your qualification of resentment is justified without bias or prejudice, it may happen that you need to remove yourself from that person or out of the environment you are currently in.

Most intelligent people who understand the true nature of this condition are unruffled by any sort of resentment as it would seem.

This is because they have learnt to cope with this issue and also understand that everyone is different.

Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 19 >>>

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The trick is to keep an open mind before you draw any conclusion that may lead you to resent the person.

Give the other person the ‘benefit of the doubt’.

It takes strong determination and courage to step up to the plate when you are faced with negative actions by another fellow human.

it takes courage to handle negative emotions

But this is truly a test of your character to face the music and see it exactly as it is from your shoes.

Do not jump to conclusion when tricky and uncomfortable situations arise. Listen, learn and understand what is being said and then keep an open mind surmise afterwards when you are free from distraction after the event.

You will notice that when you see famous politicians being interviewed, they almost always manage to keep their calm and wits about them when sensitive or controversial subjects arise.

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In concluding remarks about resentment, we should always try to understand the situation that may lead us incorrectly to a feeling of resentment.

Today we are not likely to get along with everyone and it would be difficult to do so but we can however understand what are the cause of our ill-feelings and resentment that can upset and have a damaging consequence to our relationships with people.

we are all very different from each other

One must understand that each one of us are wired differently and do not assume that everyone has your opinions or beliefs.

First remove any bias, prejudice of the subject and then address any personality hindrance that goes in the way of this, eg. being lazy then look at the problem objectively.

You may find that the other person is not able to see beyond their nose, which is ok.

If you have tried and helped others as a result and no improvement made, then you have to decide if you can live with this or not.

— The End —

We have all flared up at some point during a heated conversation or argument with someone or something and when we look back we all believe we were within our rights. We need to be more conscious of what we say and what we do because there are many times when we only like to believe our side of the story…

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Often our personality is described by others with terms such as ‘you are stubborn’, ‘lazy’, ‘cold’ etc. but this kind of categorization doesn’t really help us to address the problem effectively.

Labeling in this manner without having some definitions or clear examples are a sure sign to continuous protracted arguments with your partner or loved ones.

clarity in your message is important to communication

There have been many books written on a specific human flaw that is lacking in some of us and this is assertion.

The books go to great lengths describing how to be more assertive with others without dwelling into the root cause of the problem and how some of us came to be this way.

Often the cause or lack of assertion is swept away by the explanation of childhood experiences where our fears usually stem from and carried into the adulthood.

Understanding anger leading to resentment with the opposite sex – A man’s perspective – Part 3 >>>